Final Business Is Different for You: Time to Lead!

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So, by now, you see that as a “transformation artist,” here to empower people, you are a different type of entrepreneur, and so you need to do business differently. You need to stand out differently, and yesterday, I showed you how: interrupt long-held patterns your audience is holding on to tightly. It grabs that brain’s attention and it can’t look away.

This is the domain of the thought leader. But, as I said, you can’t just rattle cages: you must inspire those within them to want to fly: that’s what the inspired leader does. Your destiny is to become an Inspired Thought Leader.

(To read from the start of this series–highly recommended–click here.)

Inspired Thought Leader Message Elements

There are elements of an Inspired Thought Leader message that are dramatically different from any message you’re delivering now. You still need the basics—a thorough understanding of the pain and desires of your narrow market, and a single identity (you don’t offer lots of things; you offer one)—but once they’re in place, you unleash these:

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These are the elements I work deeply on with my clients in my 7-session program, The Powerhouse Method (TM).  Each one is a message in and of itself (and written as a single sentence)—but then we weave them together into a final argument, or Inspired Thought Leader message.  

Let me give some details on each.

Future Visioning. As a thought leader, you must be both a “futurist” and a “visionary.” As a futurist, you have your finger on the pulse of today’s culture and trends and you make predictions about what your market will want and be able to do over the next 5-10 years. As a visionary, you see a future for your market if they rise to their potential. It’s a future, a vision, they have not seen for themselves and want very much to aspire to.

When you frame a picture of the future and paint your market into it, GOOD AND BAD, you are leading. You are saying both “these are the imminent dangers” and “this is the Promised land.” You see where the train is going and position your tribe to get on early.

Myth-Breaking. The very POINT of being a Thought Leader is to wake people out of denial. Your market is deeply asleep in some area; profoundly conditioned. It’s your job to deploy an arrow that shatters their cozy world-view. They are sleepwalking along, thinking they are doing the right things and thinking the right things…and you come along to say, “You’ve got it all wrong.” You break limiting and outdated myths.

With all of my clients, I seek to find something that will shatter status-quo ideas—and that requires a lot of inquiry. Most people dance on the surface of their thinking, keeping the edgiest ideas out of sight and out of reach. Again, my clients and I develop this together as a single sentence to ensure cogent thinking and clear and succinct articulation. 

Core Beliefs: There exists in you a belief about how to live life and how not to live life. It comes from deep within—so deep, you may not know what it is consciously. What’s different about this belief that I have clients craft is that it is a message for all of humanity. It is their belief about humanity’s greatest problem and the solution. When you have a solution that would solve the world’s greatest problem, you truly step into the power of a leader—and particularly, an inspired leader with the great ability to influence.

Things are different for you, so it is CRITICAL that you have this message when building a business, so it’s woven into everything you create, and that you have it in your marketing. In my 7-session program, I use it to brand my clients, as I’ve branded myself from mine. “Leaving the pack” is the essence of my core belief, and it is the pulse beat of absolutely everything I offer in business: I leave the pack as a leader, my programs leave the pack, and I make sure my clients leave the pack with one-of-a-kind brands and programs. That’s my brand and it came straight from this core belief, single-sentence message.

New-Paradigm Solution: An Inspired Thought Leader is nothing if she doesn’t have a solution that breaks with the old way of doing things and thinking. This is a solution that has not been offered anywhere before—in part because it involves a proprietary process that only you have, but also because it is drawing on future trends that others have not considered and therefore takes people into new territory.

Tribe Building: With this message, you build a potent, irresistible bond with your tribe—in your marketing–by causing them to feel special, outside of the “norm,” unique. You create an “us” and “them” construct that (unlike some leaders we know) does not emphasize the weakness of “them” but does emphasize the specialness of “us.” I have done that in this series by telling you that you are “transformation artists”—a different breed from all other entrepreneurs. I don’t say anything is wrong with “them,” but I make it clear you are different from them.

In building this bond, you also assign your tribe a mission— something enormous to aspire to. It should be a big and vivid. Imagine being on the team in the 1960’s whose mission it was to put a man on the moon. Or to be at Elon Musk’s SpaceX, whose mission it is to colonize Mars. Make your mission as vivid as these.

Again, this is where the Inspired Leader comes charging in, full-on, and influences her tribe by stitching them tightly together with special, common traits and an aspirational mission.

All of these pillars must be woven into a coherent message: a well-crafted ARGUMENT. Think of your business messaging and brand as one giant, dynamic, alive, world-changing THESIS paper. LOL. You must be able to influence and persuade your market with a well-proven point.

In Summary

So, this is how you market. THIS is how you present. And this is what you SELL! Not your time, not your services, but a VISION of what your tribe can be–a new-paradigm proprietary methodology that sets you apart from everyone else and takes them where they never thought they could go.

THESE are the elements that leave a lasting impression and change lives. And changed lives ACT. And taking action is the only result you are looking for as both a world-changer and a business owner. When you break their patterns and inspire them to go where they haven’t imagined going…they will act.

Business is different for you! LEAD!

But, of course, WILL you? As I’ve been saying, almost no one is delivering this kind of leadership message. Afraid of being rejected or criticized or otherwise uncomfortable, most people born to lead, don’t.

They haven’t shattered their own paradigms yet, and so stay cozy in the middle of the curve where the crowd insulates them. Who can condemn “satisfactory,” and “good enough,” after all, when that’s what everyone around them delivers?

Yet, in doing this, you are slipping deeper and deeper into the crowd. Where no one can find you.

And where we can’t hear the IMPULSE within you any more that woke us up to this work. It’s just a faint, far-off pulse-beat.

ICFCTSimpleSmileShotCROPPEDI want to ask you:

Is it okay with you to be where “good enough is good enough”?

Is it okay with you to settle into the middle-of-the-curve and follow–when you have been called to lead?

Give me better than that audience did back in part 1!!!! Let me here a resounding, “Hell, no!”

Whoa!! Not bad!! !

Now, go out, get your Inspired Thought Leader brand and message and deliver it in your marketing. And if you want my help, click here.

Part 4 Business is Different for You: Rattle the Cages!

So, in just three days of this series on how business is different for you, you have:

1.) Recognized that you’re hiding out in mediocrity and that it’s beneath you to continue doing so;

2.) Taken yourself onto the dry, cracked soil of your business and life and, fist raised to the skies, generated your own Scarlett O’Hara moment, declaring, “As God is my witness, I will never ___________ again!” You have decided to do things differently.

And 3.) Recognized that the reason to be different is so you can be seen and heard in this marketing-crazed world—but that you have been taking business advice not meant for you. You need to stand out in a way that is worthy of you and that works.

So, what works in this day and age?

Well, anything that appeals, attracts and stands out.

And what does that? Whatever lingers. Almost nothing lingers anymore.

So, what lingers?

Ideas and statements that interrupt long-held patterns and world-views. 

When something crashes through the ceiling of what we know, shattering what we believe with new insight, new information, it captures our brain’s attention.

The BRAIN attends immediately to 3 things—what is: relevant, novel and emotional.

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So, interrupting a pattern inserts something very new into your prospect’s environment. You’ve had the experience of a new and contrarian point of view coming out of left field. The brain cannot look away because the idea is novel.

And interrupting a pattern also evokes emotion. Often it upsets you. But sometimes it evokes awe, or excitement, or fear–but whatever it is, because it tapped an emotions, it burrows under your skin and you can’t get rid of it. Think of one right now. Maybe it was a new religious perspective you discovered when you were sixteen. Maybe it was a new scientific viewpoint you heard just last week that has uprooted everything you’ve believed to that point.

These new ideas that infiltrated your bubble of awareness interrupted a long-held pattern and world-view of yours and hit you emotionally–and so you remembered it. It lasted. Because the brain is wired to attend to what is emotional.

That’s lingering. And it’s rare.

New, provocative information that “breaks the schema”—the current understanding of your prospects–grabs their attention. It appeals, attracts and stands out–and literally lays down new pathways in their brains that were not there before your message.

I am going to say that again: Because you are activating the brain’s attention with relevancy, novelty and emotion—you are creating a hairline neuronal pathway in their brain.

That. Was. Not. There. Before. Your. Message.

How cool is THAT??

THAT is the power you can yield—in your marketing. In your branding.

And it is not some lofty goal. It is a requirement.

This is what I meant, at the end of yesterday’s post, when I said that leadership would differentiate you—not all of the typical and superficial branding solutions out there.

A leader has this kind of message; this kind of impact.

But you won’t be just any leader.

You need to be a thought leader, defined as:

Someone who wakes people out of denial, who breaks the ceiling of conditioned thinking, shakes people out of blind acceptance and ultimately, shatters paradigms.

It is the thought leader who interrupts long-held patterns; breaks “schemas.”

Thought leaders see what everyone else can’t—the myths and Kool-Aid peddlers—and as a visionary, they see new landscapes.

But just doing that is not enough. You cannot rattle cages and hope to influence. You must be able to inspire those within those cages to dare to fly.

That’s where the inspired leader comes in: Someone who, in words and deeds, causes others to aspire to something inspiregreater in themselves, and greater than themselves, than they ever imagined possible, igniting a change.

If your work is to empower people, I’ve said, you are a different breed of entrepreneur—and you are a natural inspired leader. Know that. Own that. But that’s not really enough, either.

To have a powerful impact on your prospects in your book, TED talk, 1-1 presentations, YouTube videos, blog posts (i.e. your marketing), you must be a blend of both a thought leader and an inspired leader.

Someone on public platforms who disrupts the status quo with a serious wake up call and a vision of a new vista—and then inspires folks to dare to travel there.

I ask my live audiences, are you an inspired thought leader?

Everyone raises their hands.

Then, I ask: Are you an inspired thought leader in your marketing?

The hands plummet.

And I tell them that they’re not alone; that almost no one is delivering this kind of message, this kind of leadership. That’s because most everyone crowds together in the middle-of-the-curve.

But not you.

Not you.

You can and must do it differently. To honor yourself, and the Impulse that brought you to this work of empowering humanity, it is required that you leave the pack and dare to shatter paradigms.

That’s what changes lives.

And that is an invaluable result in today’s world—and I dare say, what you were born for.

So, are you an Inspired Thought Leader?

In your marketing?

I’ve got you covered.

Click here to read the end of this series, where I explain the 5 pillars of an ITL message and what makes it so incredibly different from anything else out there–and from what you are doing now.  A change, it is a comin’!!

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Part 3 Business is Different For You: Don’t Do This!

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So, did you do it?  Did you go into the fields last night and have your Scarlett O’Hara moment? Did you feel that full-bodied determination to get out from the middle-of-the-curve, where everyone is okay with average?

Did you feel the hope and belief in something so much bigger for your life and your business than that?

Did you then cut-off all other options? Burn your boats? (Read part 2 here.)

I told you yesterday that if I’d had time, I would have stimulated a reckoning like this with my lackluster audience (read part 1 post here), who revealed that, deep down, good enough might just be good enough for them. Even though they’d been called to so much greater. Even though they were born to lead.

If you’d been in that room while I facilitated such a reckoning—but decided to sit it out, I’d have lost it again: you have the chance to leave average and ordinary and you’re staying in it?

So, for all of our sake’s, I’m going to assume that you went into the arid fields of your business last night and declared, “As God is my witness, I will never ___________ again!!”

And now that you are all dressed up, let’s give you some place NEW to go. Your decision to leave the crowd behind must be rewarded—and sustained—by much, much better solutions.

NonConformityWomenFashionLet’s remember what we’re achieving here by leaving the pack: the ability to be seen, to have your message heard over the roar of thousands of competing voices. The capacity to honor the Impulse that brought you to this work in the first place, which isn’t possible when you’re looking and sounding like everyone else and offering superficial, cookie-cutter business brands, packages, workshops and presentations.

So, now that you have made the courageous decision to walk away from the middle that most everyone else calls home–how do you do it? How do you stand out?

Well, not the way you’ve been taught to. Business is different for you, so you have to do business differently—which means, giving up strategies meant for everyone else.

How many of these techniques for differentiating yourself in business have you heard?

  • Stand out with your personality. Wear some signature clothing item, or accentuate your heritage, or embellish your attitude—maybe your in-your-face irreverence or quick-witted humor.
  • Stand out with your past career or adventures. You’ve been a mountain climber, so be known for helping others scale the highest peaks in their own life. Or you once were a musician, so you should help others sing their life’s song.
  • Stand out by merging credentials with a contrasting industry. You are known for having a PhD in theology but consult to corporate clients. Or you’re known for uniquely bringing your experience as a high school principal into coaching political leaders.
  • Stand out with a narrow target market. You are known for working with mothers of newborns, or with teenagers, or young couples or retirees. Now, don’t get me wrong—every business needs a narrow market!!! But in this typical strategy, you’re known for it.
  • Stand out with your unique work style. You lead education cruises or do wilderness, beach or equine coaching.
  • Stand out with your specialty. I’m a divorce coach, an ADHD therapist, a career consultant, and EFT practitioner, and on and on.

These are familiar to you, right? Straight out of the differentiation handbook.

And sometimes they workfor much the same reason that our eyes are drawn to bright, shiny objects: they have flash-appeal. But they do not last.

Furthermore, there’s a MUCH bigger problem with all of these. Can you guess what it is?

All of them are much too superficial for what you are here to do. Again—you are a different BREED of entrepreneur; a “transformation artist.” None of these brings out the voice of the Impulse.

That voice is a leader’s voice. And it’s YOUR voice.

And it’s that voice that will differentiate you in a way all of these other strategies NEVER, EVER will.

You have something the world needs–and it won’t get it unless you lead.

Business is different for you, so you have to do business differently.

Go ahead, repeat after me:  “Things are different for me.”

Yes, they are. Now this: “Leadership is going to differentiate me!”

Click here to continue this 5-day story-series and find out just what kind of leadership will set you far apart…

Part 2: Business Is Different for You–The Reckoning

Yesterday, I wrote about the destructive war within 90% of“transformation artists”—those whose work it is to empower people (vs. other entrepreneurs). The war is this: they have a powerful Impulse that woke them up to this work, an Impulse that consumes them, really, to have an effect on the world…but then an opposing force works on them to stay in cozy-and-comfortable. That’s the Hider.

I told the story of losing my cool on an audience of transformation artists—who have the most direct access to the Impulse of any group I know—yet who gave me a flaccid response to a powerful question I asked them: “Is it all right for you to be in the middle-of-the curve where good enough is good enough?”

I got mad at them—(for them)—but if I’d had time, I would have led them into the fields to get in touch with the cost of living this way, and facilitate a moment of reckoning for them, where they would decide once and for all that they’d had enough.

ScarlettOharaThat moment of reckoning is best done just as it was for Scarlett O’Hara in Gone With the Wind: in the fields of your life, where the ground is parched and cracked from lack of nourishment, where it is impossible for you to ignore the effects of your choices on your psyche, your family, your self-regard.

Because the truth is, that ground on which you stand is a result of the decisions you’ve made. If you’re hiding out in the middle-of-the-curve, where mediocrity reigns, it was your decision to lower your standards and sell your soul for security. It was your decision to make comfort more important than the Impulse that brought you to this work. It was your decision to get your ducks in order rather than get your butt out the door to sell.

But here’s the great, great, GREAT news: it can be your decision that turns all of that around–and on a dime.

It’s just a decision. Scarlett made it: “As God as my witness, I will never go hungry again!”

It’s a decision of determined emotion—it’s not intellectual. In my days as an empowerment coach, I would stimulate this Scarlett O’Hara Moment with clients who desperately needed it, and I could hear when it was coming from their head. Scarlett was not in her head. She was in her soul. She was in her past and she was in her probable future–and she hated them both. She was done with both of them. When you’re done, you know it in every fiber of your being.

The other emotion was hope—belief that it could be another way. She saw herself living in prosperity and beauty. Belief is key to the moment of reckoning.

And then there is the cut-off—and it’s an emotional experience. It is the decision that there is no other option.  It is the decision to burn all boats. “If I have to lie, steal, cheat or kill…”

I’ll do whatever it takes. There is no other option.

It all happens in a single instant. Lives can change–yours can change–in the snap of a finger.

I dare say that all internal struggle is a failure to decide. If an issue in your life is dragging on, you are failing to make a decision. Make that decision—have your in-the-fields moment of reckoning—and 1:02 pm will be diametrically opposite to 1:01pm, setting in motion an entirely new life.

And here’s the truth about decisions: when they’re made—full-bodied, full-sensory decisions—the struggle is behind you. The struggle was in not deciding. Once you have, you’ll see that everything that follows is like a tumble down the hill!

I made one of the most shocking decisions of my life one year ago when I decided to stop eating carbs. In a dressing room last April, I had a Scarlett O’Hara moment–the emotion, the disgust, the done-ness. I said to myself, “Why don’t you give carbs up for two days.” In that instant, I decided to do it.  And after that day, I decided to make it permanent.  To everyone’s jaw-dropping surprise, one year later, I hardly have them. Let me reiterate: I loved my carbs. They gave me great joy! No one ever could have convinced me that I would enjoy eating more without them! If I had tried to eliminate them (“trying” is impotence dressed up to impress), I would have failed. But there was no trying; only deciding.

If you want to get out of mediocrity—anywhere in your life—you can do it. And it can be easy! It can be like sliding down a slide at your favorite amusement park, if you wish. But only when you take yourself out to the fields and decide. Decide means to “cut off” in Latin.

Cut off what has not worked by declaring: “As God (or whatever) is my witness, I will never __________ again!!”

If the Impulse came to you years ago and “infected” you with the need to make a dent in the universe, get yourself into your field now. There is no excuse for languishing in the middle-of-the curve!!

And whatever you do, don’t stay in hiding as you take time deciding about deciding!! LOL. You don’t need 5 months of therapy to make a decision.  You don’t even need a coach.

You just need to come face-to-face with the costs of your own destructive choices, get in touch with the hope and belief in something so much better–and harness the courage to cut-off all options but the one that brings change!

If you want bigger, you have to BE bigger! And that can happen in an instant. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

I dare you to take yourself to your proverbial field and raise your own fist to the heavens. Tonight.

What will you say?
Continue on to Part 3, where we look at the typical positioning strategies you’ve been told to use—but that come straight from the middle-of-the-curve gurus. Business is different for you. Be different!

Part 1: Business Is Different for You–Come Out of Hiding!

ICFCTHoppingMadCROPPEDI’m sharing this less-than-flattering picture because it captures a key moment in a presentation I gave recently when I lost my composure and got positively HOPPING MAD.

I’ve never actually lost it on an audience before, but here I am, literally jumping up and down in beyond-disbelief-frustration, as I called them out on the very reason they’re not where they want to be in their lives and businesses. Maybe the whole scene will resonate with you, too.

Let me give some context: I work with coaches and subject-matter experts with a fairly powerful impulse to change the world. Now, all entrepreneurs want to do that: from Silicon Valley app developers to social entrepreneurs tackling poverty and clean water issues.

But something makes coaches and the subject-matter experts I work with different from all of them: they want to empower people—how people think, act, behave. Their distinction is that they’re compelled to raise the consciousness on the planet. I call them “transformation artists.”

Most likely, if you’re reading this, you’re a transformation artist, too. And that Impulse to change the world is a strong, relentless driver, is it not? It’s got its hand on your back almost every minute of every day; it pulls you to your feet when you’re slacking, and floods you with images of your potential when you’re doubting yourself. Right?

But here’s the problem. There’s an opposite-force driver that is, miraculously, even stronger than the Impulse. It’s the Hider, who handcuffs you to your home-office arm chair and seduces you into writing books, strategizing, “preparing” and otherwise finding ways to keep you out of the limelight (i.e. marketing.)

The Hider shouts, “Anything but the limelight!! That hot beam will fry you! Who’s going to believe you? Who’s even going to get what you’re saying? They’ll crucify you out there.  Stay out at all costs!”

The Hider is a demagogue–and a cunning one. It knows about its arch-rival, the Impulse. It knows if it exerts too much pressure in the opposite direction, you might come to your senses. So, it keeps you in the game—it just directs you to do it from the middle-of-the-curve.

And good thing, because it’s cozy in there. You get to relax because expectations aren’t high. Those crowded in there with you aren’t suffering too badly; no one’s humiliated from having exposed too much of themselves or said something too off-color. Those to the right of you offer good-enough programs…those to the left have acceptable brands. So, you do, too. Who’s going to ridicule you if you look like them? Sound like them?

Who’s going to notice if your business model is like theirs; your fee structure, promotion strategies, messaging, branding, marketing? Who’s going to complain if you’re just like everyone else?

No one. They’ll just hit “delete.”

And so, you become just like them. It’s so much easier than being seen and rejected on the fringe.

The Hider is pleased.

But you slip deeper and deeper into the crowd.

Where no one can find you.

And where you can’t hear the Impulse within you at all anymore. It’s just a faint, far-off pulse-beat.

I want to ask you:

Is this okay with you?

Is it okay for you to be where good-enough is good-enough??

Is it okay with you to settle into the middle of the curve and follow—when you’ve been called to LEAD??

This is the question I asked to the live audience recently. It was their response that brought out my Irish.

They gave me a low, grumbling, uncertain, uncommitted, “No.”

And I lost it. I lost it because this is not the first time that front-line change agents have given me this half-hearted reply to the same question.

I had more to say, but I couldn’t. I stopped. I stared. And I started jumping up and down, flailing my arms about. “Are you kidding me!??” I cried. “In what UNIVERSE is it okay for you to perpetuate the status-quo and argue for your limitations??? In what UNIVERSE is mediocrity okay—especially when it’s your own life? Your own calling? Your own purpose??”

I did it in such a way that I never lost them, even though I was genuinely mad–and that’s because they knew I was mad on their behalf. I was embodying the Impulse, channeling it, daring them to wake up. I was all for them.

As I’m all for you.

For who you are meant to be–for yourself. And for your family.

For those you’re here to wake up and teach.

So, if you were in the room and you’d given me a grumble, I’d have been hopping mad at you, too.

If you’re hiding out in your 1-gig contract or home-office and not honoring what called you to do the work you do in the first place–and some how weren’t SERIOUSLY DISTURBED about that…

…I’d have been hopping mad at you, too.

If you were in the room, you’d have seen me settle down after a minute and then ask again.

With even greater volume and energy than I’d used the first time, I asked:

Is it okay for you to be where good-enough is good-enough??

Is it okay with you to settle into the middle of the curve and follow—when you’ve been called to LEAD??

How would you answer?

Read Part 2 now. Answer that question BIG and POWERFULLY once and for all–by taking a page out of Scarlett O’Hara’s book.

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